Joshua’s Cape Rants, raves and insights from the kid who loved his cape.

19Mar/101

The Great Digital Detox

I was driving home from work the other night, enjoying the way Phoenix smells during Spring. The whole city smells like orange blossoms. It was about 70 degrees and I had my windows down and the classic rock station turned up loud.

I'm unplugging.I usually drive with the windows up and the music quiet, for various reasons. I thought gee if I'd done what I usually do tonight, I'd have missed out on the simple pleasure of the wind in my face and the awesome smell of spring. Such a small thing, but such a wonderful thing. Little things like that are what make life worth living.

I started wondering what else I'm missing. What am I too distracted to enjoy and see and notice and consider? I also realized that I spend almost 14 hours every day in front of a bright, glowing screen. That's when I decided I needed to detox. Digitally.

I wish I could say I'd coined the term (and prior to getting home and Googling it, I thought I had) but the folks at AdBusters beat me to it.

What it means is a complete cutting off of your digital life. Just for 7 days.

No iPhone, no Facebook, no Twitter, no Google, no email, no texts. Just phone calls and face to face interaction. You know, that thing people did before the world became so dependent on the computing box.

I asked my fiancee when I got to her house last night 'Honey, I'm thinking about doing a Digital Detox. Whaddya think?' She gave me her trademark eyebrow which says 'I'm going to regret this, but continue.'

'No no honey it's good! I'll turn my phone off for a week and just read and reconnect with the world!'

She wasn't amused.

She pointed out that I have the attention span of a housefly and it was very unlikely that I'd really be able to stick to this thing.

I said 'Yeah that's the problem isn't it, I can't go 45 seconds without checking my email or updating Facebook!'

So I decided it was impractical to cut out my phone, since I need to communicate at least with the woman I'm marrying, if no one else. So I'm dropping the iPhone for 7 days and using an old slider phone. It calls, and it texts. That's it. And I won't be texting.

Why? Why do such a thing? What's the point?

Well, there are several reasons.

1. I realized, like I said earlier, that I could be missing much more than I realize. Cutting these simple distractions out will allow me to completely focus on the world around me, not the one inside my phone.

2. Sometimes I get so distracted with the digital things, that I don't make enough time to study the Word, or to talk to God. Just to commune with Him. How much more time will I have if I don't have any other choice? What am I missing out on by not entering into daily, real relationship with God? This will allow me to propel into a deeper connection and rekindle my focus on Him and Him alone.

3. Why not? It's a fast like any other, and this is one that will cut out something so basic, so ubiquitous, who knows what I'll see by cutting it out.

Goals

I think it's pretty stupid to jump into anything like this without some solid goals. If I just do it for the sake of doing it, I'm wasting my time. So I've set some goals for myself.

1. Get to know my King again.

That means spending time with Him exclusively. Not with Him as long as my phone isn't going off, or as long as I've checked my Twitter feed recently.

2. Notice things I've been missing.

This one is kind of out of my control. It's more something I'll be praying for. I hope to see somethings that I have been missing. I want this to be eye-opening.

3. Reprioritize

I want the silly things in life to become faded into the background and the important things to become even more apparent than they are now.

4. I want a break from technology.

It's pretty hard to break away from the tech world when you work in it. I'm not going to be able to avoid using my computer and work email while at work. But I won't be reading the tech blogs I frequent. When it's slow, I'll read my Bible.

I'm tired of staring at screens all day. It can't possibly be good for my eye(s) anyway.

The Rules

Starting Sunday night and for 7 days thereafter, I'll be decommissioning the iPhone and plugging my SIM card into an old Samsung slider. I will not be texting. So be warned, if you text me, I won't be texting back that week.

I will only use my computer at work for work. No IM, no random tech blogs, no Google Reader, no Gmail, no Google Calendar, nothing.

I will take phone calls. That's the new 'old-school' way of communicating. Sure, I could go all uber-hardcore and write letters or something, but no one would get them before the fast was over anyway.

Follow along!

It's going to be hard. I'm definitely a techno-junkie.

I'm going to encourage our College Group to join me for the week. Anyone else who's interested, let me know in the comments before Sunday night and I'll put you on the list to be praying for while I'm 'detoxing.'

I'll also be writing (with a pen and paper) a blog post each day. I will post them in order next week. So expect a week of silence, then 7 consecutive posts from the detox week.

It can't possibly be a bad idea. More prayer and more time with God is never a bad thing.

3Feb/090

Praying with expectation.

That phrase has been floating around my life for weeks now...and I think I finally get why.

It's been rolling around my head, sneaking into my heart and really pervading all my thoughts.

I'm reading through the New Testament as part of my fast, and I keep running across this passage at opportune times:

9"So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 10For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.

11Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? 12Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!

Luke 11:9-13

I really decided to let go and let God when it came to this trip, and so far he has completely demolished whatever expectations I might have had.

I decided to completely let God have this medium and use it to glorify HIM!

If you're reading this right now and there are things that you're praying about that you just don't feel any movement on, read this chapter in Luke. And then reconsider that prayer. If you're seeking HIM and HIS kingdom first, then why wouldn't God grant your requests? Jesus loves us. He put the desires of our hearts there for a reason, and not to deny them.

Ask yourself, am I praying this hoping for HIS glory? Is this request going to glorify HIM? I think you'll find some clarification there.

The book of James also has some excellent wisdom on praying with expectation.

13Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. 14Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. 15And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. 16Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

James 5:13-16

What more clear instruction do we, as followers of Christ need?! It all seems so clear when you step back and watch the Word of God line up with itself so harmoniously.

Consider those things you're stuck on. Re-evaluate them from a new perspective. Take God out of your box and let Him do what He wants to do in your life.