The Great Digital Detox
I was driving home from work the other night, enjoying the way Phoenix smells during Spring. The whole city smells like orange blossoms. It was about 70 degrees and I had my windows down and the classic rock station turned up loud.
I usually drive with the windows up and the music quiet, for various reasons. I thought gee if I'd done what I usually do tonight, I'd have missed out on the simple pleasure of the wind in my face and the awesome smell of spring. Such a small thing, but such a wonderful thing. Little things like that are what make life worth living.
I started wondering what else I'm missing. What am I too distracted to enjoy and see and notice and consider? I also realized that I spend almost 14 hours every day in front of a bright, glowing screen. That's when I decided I needed to detox. Digitally.
I wish I could say I'd coined the term (and prior to getting home and Googling it, I thought I had) but the folks at AdBusters beat me to it.
What it means is a complete cutting off of your digital life. Just for 7 days.
No iPhone, no Facebook, no Twitter, no Google, no email, no texts. Just phone calls and face to face interaction. You know, that thing people did before the world became so dependent on the computing box.
I asked my fiancee when I got to her house last night 'Honey, I'm thinking about doing a Digital Detox. Whaddya think?' She gave me her trademark eyebrow which says 'I'm going to regret this, but continue.'
'No no honey it's good! I'll turn my phone off for a week and just read and reconnect with the world!'
She wasn't amused.
She pointed out that I have the attention span of a housefly and it was very unlikely that I'd really be able to stick to this thing.
I said 'Yeah that's the problem isn't it, I can't go 45 seconds without checking my email or updating Facebook!'
So I decided it was impractical to cut out my phone, since I need to communicate at least with the woman I'm marrying, if no one else. So I'm dropping the iPhone for 7 days and using an old slider phone. It calls, and it texts. That's it. And I won't be texting.
Why? Why do such a thing? What's the point?
Well, there are several reasons.
1. I realized, like I said earlier, that I could be missing much more than I realize. Cutting these simple distractions out will allow me to completely focus on the world around me, not the one inside my phone.
2. Sometimes I get so distracted with the digital things, that I don't make enough time to study the Word, or to talk to God. Just to commune with Him. How much more time will I have if I don't have any other choice? What am I missing out on by not entering into daily, real relationship with God? This will allow me to propel into a deeper connection and rekindle my focus on Him and Him alone.
3. Why not? It's a fast like any other, and this is one that will cut out something so basic, so ubiquitous, who knows what I'll see by cutting it out.
Goals
I think it's pretty stupid to jump into anything like this without some solid goals. If I just do it for the sake of doing it, I'm wasting my time. So I've set some goals for myself.
1. Get to know my King again.
That means spending time with Him exclusively. Not with Him as long as my phone isn't going off, or as long as I've checked my Twitter feed recently.
2. Notice things I've been missing.
This one is kind of out of my control. It's more something I'll be praying for. I hope to see somethings that I have been missing. I want this to be eye-opening.
3. Reprioritize
I want the silly things in life to become faded into the background and the important things to become even more apparent than they are now.
4. I want a break from technology.
It's pretty hard to break away from the tech world when you work in it. I'm not going to be able to avoid using my computer and work email while at work. But I won't be reading the tech blogs I frequent. When it's slow, I'll read my Bible.
I'm tired of staring at screens all day. It can't possibly be good for my eye(s) anyway.
The Rules
Starting Sunday night and for 7 days thereafter, I'll be decommissioning the iPhone and plugging my SIM card into an old Samsung slider. I will not be texting. So be warned, if you text me, I won't be texting back that week.
I will only use my computer at work for work. No IM, no random tech blogs, no Google Reader, no Gmail, no Google Calendar, nothing.
I will take phone calls. That's the new 'old-school' way of communicating. Sure, I could go all uber-hardcore and write letters or something, but no one would get them before the fast was over anyway.
Follow along!
It's going to be hard. I'm definitely a techno-junkie.
I'm going to encourage our College Group to join me for the week. Anyone else who's interested, let me know in the comments before Sunday night and I'll put you on the list to be praying for while I'm 'detoxing.'
I'll also be writing (with a pen and paper) a blog post each day. I will post them in order next week. So expect a week of silence, then 7 consecutive posts from the detox week.
It can't possibly be a bad idea. More prayer and more time with God is never a bad thing.
Did you miss me?
I missed 2 days!
That kind of makes me a bad person.
Trust me when I say it's been a pretty crazy week.
I've pretty much gone back and forth between feeling like Lazarus, and that fig tree Jesus cursed.
Remember the fig tree?
Early in the morning, as he was on his way back to the city, he was hungry. Seeing a fig tree by the road, he went up to it but found nothing on it except leaves. Then he said to it, "May you never bear fruit again!" Immediately the tree withered.
When the disciples saw this, they were amazed. "How did the fig tree wither so quickly?" they asked.
Jesus replied, "I tell you the truth, if you have faith and do not doubt, not only can you do what was done to the fig tree, but also you can say to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and it will be done. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer."
Matthew 21: 18-22
Ever feel like that fig tree?
I do. It's fleeting, but sometimes just the way things happen...the timing with which things happen...just things that happen...I just feel like Jesus is telling me I'll never bear fruit again.
Now of course, this very feeling is the enemy trying to convince me that I've done nothing right. While the almost silent Holy Spirit tells my heart that indeed I've done nothing WRONG. But if you're not listening the way you're supposed to, Satan is a lot louder.
But then ten seconds...minutes...hours later, I feel like Lazarus.
Like I've just been raised from the dead and everything feels fresh and exciting. I see the Lord in my life and I know that I'm earnestly seeking HIS will...
Then another ten minutes go by and I am not producing figs again.
I know we all have days like that. When circumstances and events get the best of us and we just undulate between trust and fear.
God promises us the desires of our hears. Hebrews 11:6 tells us "And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him."
He promises that to us, but its up to us to believe it.
Its up to us to remain on the 'Lazarus Mountaintop' (as I've dubbed it) and not fall in to the 'Figless Pit' (not to be confused with the Pigless Fit...which us considerably more unpleasant).
When I get like this, I find myself reading Paul's letters to the early churches, and the Psalms.
King David (among others) managed to gather MY thoughts and feelings47000 bajillion (roughly) years ago and put them into better words that I could ever come up with!
He knew God's promises for us and also knew that sometimes things sucked, and he wasn't afraid to tell God that.
Anyway, if you're stuck in the Figless Pit, 'ask Hashem for mercy, and he'll throw you a rope.'
[That's a line from one of this guy's songs, by the way.]
The New Testament in 40 Days
Here's a guide to help you get through the NT in 40 days:
Day 1: Matthew 1-7
Day 2: Matthew 8-12
Day 3: Matthew 13-18
Day 4: Matthew 19-24
Day 5: Matthew 25-28
Day 6: Mark 1-6
Day 7: Mark 7-11
Day 8: Mark 12-16
Day 9: Luke 1-4
Day 10: Luke 5-9
Day 11: Luke 10-13
Day 12: Luke 14-19
Day 13: Luke 20-24
Day 14: John 1-5
Day 15: John 6-9
Day 16: John 10-14
Day 17: John 15-19
Day 18: John 20-Acts 4
Day 19: Acts 5-9
Day 20: Acts 10-15
Day 21: Acts 16-20
Day 22: Acts 21-26
Day 23: Acts 27-Romans 4
Day 24: Romans 5-10
Day 25: Romans 11-1 Corinthians 1
Day 26: 1 Corinthians 2-9
Day 27: 1 Corinthians 10-15
Day 28: 1 Corinthians 16-2 Corinthians 9
Day 29: 2 Corinthians 10-Galatians 4
Day 30: Galatians 5-Philippians 1
Day 31: Philippians 2-1Thessalonians 2
Day 32: 1 Thessalonians 3-1 Timothy 5
Day 33: 1 Timothy 6-Hebrews 1
Day 34: Hebrews 2-10
Day 35: Hebrews 11-James 5
Day 36: 1 Peter 1-1 John1
Day 37: 1 John 2-Jude
Day 38: Revelation 1-7
Day 39: Revelation 8-15
Day 40: Revelation 16-22